Spanish reflexive verbs and pronouns

Do you know what reflexive verbs are?  Sometimes you will have to talk about things you do to yourself – Like «washing yourself» or «getting yourself up» in the morning. It sounds weird in English but in Spanish, we do it all the time and this is what we call a reflexive verbs

Understanding reflexive verbs in Spanish

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«Se» means «oneself». You can tell which verbs need «self» by checking in the dictionary those verbs ending in «se»: «to get washed» in the dictionary will be «lavarse«.  There are lots of these verbs, but here are the ones you really should know:


acostarse (to go to bed)sentirse (to feel)despertarse (to wake up)
vestirse (to get dressed)levantarse (to get up)llamarse (to be called)
 irse (to go away) ponerse (to put on)ducharse (to have a shower)


Spanish reflexive pronouns

Here are all the different ways to say «self», what we call reflexive pronouns:


The reflexive pronoun normally precedes the verb:

  • ¿Te sientes mal? (Do you feel ill?)
  • No me despierto temprano (I don’t wake up early).
  • Tomás siempre se acuesta a las 23:00 (Tomás always goes to bed at 23:00).

Even when you want to use reflexive verbs in the present perfect tense, put the reflexive pronouns (e.g. me, te…) in front of the auxiliary verb:

  • Me he puesto la chaqueta (I’ve put on my jacket).

Reflexive pronouns with infinitive, gerund or imperative affirmative

Nevertheless, the reflexive pronouns -like the object pronouns– it is added to the end of affirmative imperatives, gerunds, and infinitives:

  • ¡Levántante(Get up!).
  • Está divirtiéndose (She’s enjoying herself).
  • Fueron a Las Vegas para casarse (They went to Las Vegas to get married).

Use "se" to make impersonal phrases

The reflexive pronoun «se» is often used in front of a verb that’s not reflexive to make it impersonal. It is like saying «one does something» in English. The verb has to be in the «he/she/it» form.

  • ¿Se puede comer afuera? (Can one eat outside?).
  • Se vive muy bien en esta ciudad ( Life is good in this city).
  • Se debe trabajar mucho para tener éxito (One should work hard to be succesful).
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